We’ve all done it—nodding along while secretly planning the perfect response. In this episode, Mike and Adrian unpack the difference between actually listening and just waiting to talk. With humor, honesty, and real-life examples, they explore why we do it, the hidden cost it has on relationships, and how it impacts marriage, friendships, leadership, and trust. They share practical ways to listen better, call out their own bad habits, and challenge listeners to rethink what it really means to be present.